How to Sustain and Maintain a Relationship

What is a Relationship?

This is refer to as the deep link that exist between two or more people which makes them to assist each other without barriers. Having an affair with someone can not be likened to having a relationship with the person, as an affair can always be just sex or emotions with no benefits or with some barriers.


Who can one have a relationship with?

This can occur between families, groups, classes, organization, couples, churches, mosques, teams, customer and an Organization etc. Most people always refer to the one between couples as relationship and makes all others looks less of it. But, if theres no mutual relationship between all others, communication processes would be destroy and interactions would seem difficult.

Stages of Relationship

1. Primary stage
2. secondary stage

1. PRIMARY STAGE

This is a stage where every member or relations existing in a relationship gets to meet. Here, the parties involved would seemingly not understand each other and little agitation or quarrel would always occur. This stage is always necessary because it leads to the secondary stage where maintenance of the relationship is highly needed.
At this stage, there would always be barriers and limitation, its also a trust building process, rules and laws would be broken and a stage of total endurance.

2. SECONDARY STAGE

At this stage i assume that the parties involved had taken all the necessary endurance processes and amend their ways after breaking the laws and rules involve in the tie within the team, organization, families or friends. What really matters at this stage is how to sustain, maintain and attain a greater level in the relationship, so that when one party act, all others involved would know what to do to appease him or her and issue of disparity would be solved.
Anyone involved at this secondary stage is considered a patient fellow as he or she would have passed ANGER TEST and could also resolve any quarrel issue quickly.

How to Maintain a Relationship

Maintaining a relationship largely depends on how you have passed your primary stages and how well you are doing in your secondary stage. But, there are few steps that could help in maintaining your relationship, either with a customer or with your team mate or with your spouse.

1. Always take your time to study your partner as it would give you much knowledge on how to maintain the relationship.

2. Ensure you can  know a cause of an act before you react and if you eventually suddenly pro-act, always find a quick means of resolving the issue either by cracking a joke or buying the person a gift. As war is easy to start, if not quickly put out, its very difficult to extinguish.

3. Take your time to still investigate your parties involved in the relationship. because living with someone for 70 years doesn't mean you've known him or her to the last act. Human beings changes and grow by day, as we continue to metamorphosize.

4. Forgive easily

5. Take a blame if necessary and don't forget to correct other parties when the temper has calm down.

6. Always take part in any activities even you are angry.

7. The parties involved should not feel too big to say sorry.